My first 6 months
On walking into the centre of the city earlier this evening, Jeroen asked me how I thought my first 6 months in NL had gone! It gave me an opportunity to reflect, and I must admit a real mixture of emotions - lots of fun and surprises, many days of frustration, feelings of homesickness, boredom, and loneliness, but mostly the feeling that I have definately made the right decision!
As those of you who have lived in foreign lands for a period of time will know, these feelings are all pretty normal (I think!). I have become an expert in filling in my time doing something close to nothing. I feel a lot like the unemployed Hugh Grant character in "About A Boy", where he breaks his day down into small "units" of 1 hour each eg 1 unit used having a shower, getting dressed, having breakfast etc in the morning, 1 unit used at the supermarket, 1 unit checking the internet/email etc........you get the picture!! In a way, it's really just an attempt to give my day some kind of structure ;-) Don't get me wrong, most of the time I am having a ball, and started feeling ok about taking advantage of my "free time in between jobs" at least 3 months ago - about the time when the 15th-something temp agency told me I had no chance of fruitful employment until I could master the mysteries of the beautiful language that is Dutch!!
That brings me to my next point :-) After months of waiting (and a few minor administrative hiccups), I start my language classes on 14 August. Turns out they will be 4 days a week for 5 hours per day - who needs a part time job! Needless to say, I am REALLY looking forward to having something to do and hope that I can find some kindred spirits amongst my classmates. Jeroen's friends are all lovely and I always have fun with them, but it is a bit like I am being forced upon them and it would be nice to make my own friends (harder than you may think!). I am also looking forward to my "blind date" on Friday with Cindy. She is also from Melbourne, is here because she fell in love with a Dutchie, and I met her via an expat website. We have been in regular email contact, and Friday is our first face to face meeting. How funny!
It's strange, since I have been here I have never felt more Australian. I find myself defending the artistic merits of "Neighbours" & "The Flying Doctors", watching "Rex Hunt's Fishing Adventures", and wearing green & gold t-shirts (something I wouldn't be seen dead in back in Melbourne!). Sometimes it's a bit like being some kind of novelty item, but usually it's really nice!
Alli xxx